Have you noticed that many of us let our imaginations always go to the worst possible outcome. A little blemish on your face, Skin cancer! Your boss closes the door for a meeting, You're being fired! Why don't you try practicing the positive fantasy response instead, The closed-door meeting, You're about to be made a vice president! The blemish, A love bite!; Holding a grudge is like being in an airplane that can never land. It's exhausting, and it can wear out your parts. Find an airport called Forgiveness so you can get to your final destination . . . Happiness.